You want a stone that is About that Life ?
get you a black tourmaline - THE Protector of negative energies, vibes, and intentions. Even your own. This is a major grounding stone so it reinforced the root chakra. It gives the sense of belonging in the rooms you walk in and and that stillness of knowing you are in the right place.
its one of my favorite stones and some half of these pieces are amplified with clear quartz. Which add a resetting vibration to it.